Chynna Phillips Baldwin says she and husband Billy Baldwin live separately and have ‘an allergy to one another’
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Billy Baldwin and Chynna Phillips
Chynna Phillips Baldwin is sharing an honest look into her nearly 30-year marriage to actor Billy Baldwin, revealing that the couple is currently living separately in a unique arrangement that works for her—though it might not be as easy for Billy. In a recent video posted to her YouTube channel, the Wilson Phillips singer explained how this arrangement has led to a healthier and happier dynamic between the two.
Phillips Baldwin described the situation as an experiment that they decided to try to see if living in different cities might improve their relationship. “Billy and I are sort of in this new kind of arrangement that is actually really working for me,” she shared. “I don’t know if it’s working for Billster, but I’m really happy with what we’re doing.”
The couple, who married in 1995, had been facing some challenges in their relationship. Chynna suggested the idea of splitting their time between two California cities—she would stay in Santa Barbara, while Billy would be based in Beverly Hills. “Why don’t we just do a little test run to see what it feels like to have me in Santa Barbara, you in Beverly Hills and then we flip-flop?” she proposed. While Chynna expressed satisfaction with the setup, she noted that Billy was less enthusiastic but still agreed to give it a try.
Their new arrangement doesn’t mean they are growing apart. Chynna clarified that they still prioritize quality time together, including date nights, family dinners, therapy sessions, and activities with their children. “We have date nights together, we have therapy, we have dinner with the children, and we go to the beach or the museum,” she said. The couple shares three children: daughters Jameson, 24, and Brooke, 19, and son Vance, 22.
Though living separately has worked for her, Chynna emphasized that they are still very much in love and committed to one another. She acknowledged that their relationship requires space to thrive, and that being around each other constantly can sometimes feel overwhelming. “We enjoy each other’s company. It’s so hard to articulate to people that we’re madly in love, we really enjoy being around one another, we cherish our marriage, we don’t ever want to separate,” she said. “We just need a little bit of a time apart because we are sort of an allergy to one another. And it’s OK. I’m sure lots of different couples are allergies to each other.”
In a FaceTime conversation during the video, Chynna told Billy that she felt they were onto something with their new arrangement, even though he was more skeptical. “I think that we’re onto something,” she said. “I really do.” Billy responded with humor, acknowledging the dynamic they share. “The reality is you have the allergy,” he said, teasing his wife. “I have a certain energy that makes you have a histamine… see, your back just tweaked just now.”
This isn’t the first time the couple has been candid about their struggles. Earlier this year, Chynna opened up about how they went through a difficult period in their relationship, including a six-month separation. They also discussed how their spiritual differences have posed challenges. In January, Chynna revealed that she had become more religious, which led to some tension between them. However, Billy made it clear that despite their differences, he still deeply loved and supported her. “But I still absolutely love you, absolutely adore you, and completely support you,” he said. “That’s why I’m sitting here now.”
Overall, the couple’s openness about their struggles and their unconventional approach to maintaining their marriage is a reminder that every relationship is unique. Chynna and Billy Baldwin’s story shows that sometimes, taking a step back and creating space for one another can actually bring people closer together. Their honesty about what works for them challenges traditional notions of marriage and offers insight into how they keep their bond strong—even when living apart.
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