Conan O’Brien pays tribute to his parents who died within days of each other
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Conan O’Brien has opened up about the loss of his parents, Ruth Reardon O’Brien and Dr. Thomas F. O’Brien, who passed away within days of each other. In an emotional interview with The Boston Globe, the former late-night TV host shared his memories of both his mother and father, celebrating their unique qualities and the profound influence they had on his life.
Ruth, who passed away last Thursday, and Thomas, who died three days earlier, were a remarkable pair, according to their son. “My parents complemented each other very well,” O’Brien reflected, acknowledging the contrast between them. Ruth, a dedicated legal professional, balanced a demanding career while raising six children, including O’Brien. She was described by her son as the “realist” in the family, the practical figure who ensured the children were well cared for, kept up with their medical appointments, and made sure they had everything they needed growing up.
On the other hand, his father, Dr. Thomas F. O’Brien, was an ambitious and adventurous spirit. A respected physician at Brigham and Women’s Hospital, Thomas dedicated much of his career to speaking with doctors in developing countries about the dangers of antibiotic resistance. Conan fondly recalled a trip his father took him on to South America when he was in seventh grade. “He thought, ‘You’re going to learn more traveling through these various neighborhoods and cities in South America for a week and a half than you will in public school in Brookline.’” That trip sparked O’Brien’s lifelong love for travel. He remembered his father as the “dreamer,” always taking risks and embarking on projects that seemed to push boundaries.
Though they had different personalities, Conan said his parents shared core values, particularly their “dedication to excellence.” The O’Briens, both coming from Irish Catholic backgrounds, had a strong work ethic that was apparent in everything they did. “They were incredibly hard-working and disciplined,” O’Brien said. “I think what my mother and father saw in each other was that they were kindred spirits.”
Despite the sadness of losing both parents in such a short time frame, O’Brien spoke with deep affection and admiration for their lives and legacies. In his interview, he reflected on the lessons they imparted to him: his mother’s practicality and grounded approach to family life, and his father’s adventurous, visionary spirit. These contrasting traits, O’Brien believes, shaped his own character and career.
As the O’Brien family grieves, Conan is preparing for his next major endeavor, taking on the role of host for the 97th Academy Awards in 2025. This milestone is an apt reflection of the strong work ethic instilled in him by his parents, and he seems poised to carry on their legacy of excellence. His parents’ influence can be seen not just in his professional success but also in his personal values.
In the wake of their deaths, O’Brien has shared stories of his parents’ devotion to their family and careers, painting a picture of a couple who were vastly different yet deeply committed to each other. Their lives, though distinct in many ways, were united by a common goal of contributing to society and nurturing a family with love, discipline, and care.
The loss of his parents is clearly a heavy one for O’Brien, but their influence lives on in the way he approaches life, work, and relationships. As he prepares for his next big project, it’s clear that the foundation laid by Ruth and Thomas will continue to guide him.
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